Tuesday, April 7, 2009

When you think of a cougar, what comes to mind?

I think of a woman that’s strong, powerful, lovely, and yet soft and feminine. She knows what she wants, and knows how to get it, and yet is open for new horizons. I’ll definitely be on the site to check out new dating profiles and information!

6 comments:

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Anonymous said...

When I think of the term cougar, I think of someone who is confident in her skin,someone who has been thru things in her life and has the ability to go after what she wants...

Anonymous said...

Someone that has a blown out vajayjay.

Anonymous said...

As far as I know my old neighbor from New York was the first one to use the term in Manhattan Beach, CA. I don't know if he invented it or if it an east coast thing that he brought with him. Manhattan Beach by the way is commonly known as the cougar capitol of the world -- I have even heard this mentioned on ESPN radio.

Definitions on the web seem to follow closely the meaning that was originally intended. (see example below)

"Urbandictionary.com defines a cougar as a female who is in her 30's and older and is in her sexual prime who prefers to hunt than be hunted. This lady is described to frequent clubs in her search for a man, whom she prefers to be much younger and willing to have fun, in any way."

It was generally used to describe a woman past her prime that doesn't accept reality and seeks a young piece of meat, mostly living in denial.

[ Don't kill the messenger! ]

It is fascinating and even humorous to those who used the term in the early 90s that women are trying to turn this negative connotation into something to be proud of or something positive.

Please accept this as a sincere answer and don't delete this post -- let the firestorm of comments begin.

Anonymous said...

I think it's great. I see nothing negative in being a women over 30. I'm not dead yet ! Still feel and look good, not in denial about anything in life. Why is it that women have to be in denial and when it comes to men it's okay for an "older " man to be glorified when he dates younger girls ! Can someone please answer that one for me ?