Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Cougars - It's a Jungle Out There!

Good day Cougars! Yes, it's a jungle out there! And anyone who's been in the jungle knows that you need to be well prepared to handle any elements that may come your way. Let me now introduce you to Shayla and Dreena, who I consider to be well equipped to help you navigate in the dating and relationship jungle. I welcome them to this blog with open arms and I believe you will, too. Don't be shy. They'd love to hear from you, and will respond with a bit of sugar and spice, humor, and honest straightforward advice!

Disclaimer for W.omen A.re S.tupid…..W.A.S. It must be noted that the articles written and strong statements made are the personal beliefs of either Shayla Taylor and/or Dreena Diane. We are both strong females with experience and intellectual wisdom….we however don’t need either of these things to speak with great conviction. So welcome to our wacky and wild blog, put on your best smiley face because our goal is to piss you off, get you to think another way, and set you MENtally Free! Once I W.A.S. Blind and now I see! YOU'RE WELCOME!

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Goldigger vs. Goaldigger

First let’s take you through the definition of a Goaldigger and a Goldigger.

The definition of a Goaldigger is a woman who knows what she wants out of life and does not necessarily need or want to include a man to make that happen. However it would be wise for any woman to understand she will become nothing without the help of a good man. Please note a GOOD man. Anyone with half a brain can understand it takes a team to build an empire. You were created from team and will require team to make things happen in your life. Let’s hope a hard core feminist will even understand that.

The definition of a Golddigger is a woman who is not used too much and has never been. She is trying to increase her lot in life by trying to get material stuff from men that she does not like and does not care for. If you are selling, most men are willing to buy. Goldiggers can be manipulative, dishonest and uncaring. They also usually have some deep seated emotional issues. Most Goldiggers are incapable of real love. They have the mindset of most strippers’ or most prostitutes’ in that they really don’t like men.

Goaldigger’s can be two types of women. The 1st type of Goaldigger is someone who is extremely independent and feels that she does not need a man, and feels that she will achieve “it” all on her own. While commendable these women are stupid. So then there is the 2nd type of Goaldigger who knows its ok that a man should take care of a woman. This woman knows that whether she works or doesn’t work a man will always have her back. A true Goaldigger is smart enough to realize that a man can, should, and will help in whatever she wants to do. Whether its shop, work part time as an artist while taking Pilates classes with weekly visits to the spa or whether she wants to have him support her while she takes on starting a small business. This is the Goaldigger that all women should aspire to be.

So to spell it out for you stupid women out there, you want to be the 2nd type of GOALDIGGER.

Women so many times are confused with being considered a Goldigger because they have a certain expectation from men. Women are made to feel wrong about there expectations. There is a saying that if you have no expectations then you will have no disappointments and although that is somewhat true do not use that in the situation of men. If there is a certain way you like to be treated, hold your ground (expectation) make that man come to your level or drop him. There is a philosophy “DON’T CHANGE MEN….. CHANGE MEN”. You might want to say that out loud to really grasp the profoundness of that. If you are one of the dumb women that is still trying to change the man your with, our advice is drop him. We will discuss this more in a future post.

No matter what the choice is you are no less of a woman for accepting help. He is a more of a man for supporting you and you are not less of a woman for accepting it. Two famous and brilliant women have done this very thing and you have heard of them both Coco Chanel and Mae West. Both were Goaldigger’s who knew that the help of a man was vital to their success and they used this wisdom to the fullest extent.

At the end of the day the most important thing to a man is their money, their ability to make it, have it and spend it and if they are not spending it on you then they don’t care about you!

Where the fun will begin is this……ARE YOU THE TYPE OF WOMAN THAT HAS ENOUGH SELF ESTEEM AND GENEROUSITY TO ACCEPT THE HELP OF A GOOD MAN!

You’re Welcome in Advance,

Dreena Diane and Shayla Taylor

I once W.A.S. Blind and now I see!


2 comments:

Anonymous said...

What is a cougar? I am not quite sure, but I think that cougars are rejected females over 40, yes?

Are you a cougar because you were St. Johns Knits to the clubs?

Anonymous said...

In response to your post on what is a cougar ...I must say that you sound pretty negative on women over 40 ! Rejected ??? Hardly the case. Apparently you aren't meeting the right type of "cougars". Please don't get it twisted. The women I know over 40are fabulous , strong spirited career women who have a lot of wisdom.If you are a women I only hope you get to experience the friendship, brilliance and the beauty of confident strong women over 40 and may you be so blessed to become one yourself. And for the St. Johns Knits comment...Let's just say ,you must be a cougar that's doing pretty well for yourself if you wear St. John Knits to the club :)